I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. Part of the reason I created it is because my friends find it hard to understand. The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. We have a strong relationship, so I am lucky - but lately the demands of family are becoming a bit too much to handle - and I really don't know how to 'deal' with my inlaws and 'sharing' my husband with them. I can live on less Our whole family has suffered in the name of patient care. Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. You have to be so strong to be on your own so much. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered.
Hopefully you two will be on the same page and can be open with each other so that you have matching expectations. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. II do wish you luck. We'll have to discuss that, now that I actually know some things about some things. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. And I learned how freeing that is. Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. By the way, I have had to get another job to help make ends meet.
You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past. Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. If you can, do it now. But daytime game is the key. If he's too tired from work to go to a party that we both wanted to go to, then I'm cool with staying in since I just enjoy his company and am happy to finally be seeing him.
Random Questions to Ask a Guy. Maybe more convinced than you are. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO.