I recently started seeing a woman in her early thirties who lives out of state. We are both very sexually progressive and communicate our needs, desires and fantasies openly with each other. That said, my lady friend can only orgasm from oral sex, which is fine because I absolutely love giving head! It takes a bit of timing, but when it happens, it really happens!
When something works, keep it consistent
A team of researchers compiled the results of five different sex surveys taken over four decades starting in the early s. They published their findings in October in the journal Socioaffective Neuroscience and Psychology. Note: Not all of the surveys asked the same questions. In some cases, results pertain to just one survey. Many women reach orgasms when their partner performs oral sex or manual stimulation touching the genitals. While not all women climax this way, the researchers found that women who receive these types of sexual stimulation reach orgasm more often. Oral sex was particularly helpful for women with low sexual desire, as well as women who had trouble talking about sex with their partner, the authors explained. However, many women were reluctant to ask their partner for oral sex. While skillful partners were helpful, discussing and finding ways to bring mutual pleasure was also important. Women with high sexual self-esteem, who felt confident about their abilities in the bedroom, tended to have orgasms more frequently.
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Takeaway: Forget the jackhammer tongues and clumsy kisses; you only need a few key moves to make a woman go wild. Did you know that just 30 percent of women are able to orgasm through vaginal sex? What that means is that in order to really please a lady, loving partners need a few more tricks up their sleeves. Read on to discover how to blow her mind with incredible oral sex. Looking for tips on how to please a man?
The female orgasm can be a sneaky, elusive little thing, with many women wondering how to experience it during sex , or if that's even possible for them. When it comes to having an orgasm with your partner , there are two different approaches you can take. You can do the stuff everyone promises will absolutely give you an orgasm , or you can do the stuff that actually works for you. But sometimes, it can be hard to tell the difference. It often feels like every 10 minutes, there's another article by another expert who has come up with four new, no-fail, percent orgasm-guaranteeing positions that will work for all women girl on top, doggy-style with vibrator, headstand during a full moon in January, missionary while wearing Dr. Seuss hat. When these methods fail to make rainbows shoot out of our crotches, a lot of the time, we end up blaming ourselves for doing them "wrong. But there's no such thing as a "no-fail" orgasm technique that will work for every woman — we're all built differently, we like and dislike different things, and we have different vaginattention spans. The only way we can figure out what works for us is to conduct our own research, and then come to our own conclusions luckily, conducting this research is usually pretty fun.