You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. As a married female resident, I wanted to offer you the other side of this Your husbands love you, and miss you. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. It is very difficult being a Doctors wife. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that.
Once last piece of advice to you girls who are "dating" or "engaged to" a doc: Don't confuse "dating" and "engaged to" with "married to" - get the ring on your finger and seal the deal. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. My children started a new school this year and up until last week, my husband couldn't have told you what time they started or where to drop them off.
I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. However, now that the student loans are paid off and we have a nice fancy custom home, he has decided to devote his money and time to purchasing and using new bikes road and mtnskis downhill and tele and the list goes on. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. I hope he wised up. I'd suggest the essays. I think love and caring can be more important. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love.
Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian. People respect him more and belittle him less He seems just a little bit happier - which makes a difference at home. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. I sacrificed my career not in medicine but I have advanced degrees in my profession because I felt so lucky to be able to be at home raising my two wonderful sons. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. I usually mean exactly what I say. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. With moonlighting included, my boyfriend sometimes works up to hours per week.